Getting out of Whirlpool

How often have you woken up feeling helpless and powerless of the situations?

I have woken with such a feeling not just once but multiple times. 

Felt powerless about how much life is shaping up. It feels like I have no control over everything. The feeling of not being able to reach or even stretch to grasp what you want, the feeling of not able to perform and being in back seat of the life. I have felt all those feelings and there is one thing that I have found while going through such emotions or such feelings is that we are responsible for such situations. 

If we want to get out of that feeling of helplessness then we must muster courage to take the step. To take the initiative to take back the steering of our life and veer it to the path we want. Whether it is relationship or life or even the trivial thing as going out for dinner, you got to stand up and walk off and follow your heart. If you just sit and don't do anything about the situation then your life will just revolve around that situation. Situations are a whirlpool and if you want to get out of it then step up and build strength in your arms and row your boat out of that whirlpool. 

I have wasted important years of my life trying to figure out what I want and not having courage to go after it. Get control of your life and work out a way to get want you want of life.