Few Views, Few Thoughts

Many times in our life we come to that point from where everything starts appearing hazy. Not able to indentify path and people scares us to the core. This is the time when we are most susceptible to veer to the wrong path or get involved with the wrong person. In such a situation what we all need is a good friend. Many quotes and stories have been written about friends and friendship but it is not always possible for us to be in touch with our best friend. This is the reason why I carefully used the word Good Friend. He might not know all your secrets and would not even know extreme crazy side of you but he is the one who will not think ill of you. He will be there by your side and would stop you from veering to the path of misery. If you are depressed and contemplating some crazy ways of getting rid of it then in such a case your good friend will be the one who will set you straight. He/she will give light to the dark path you were about tread on. But in such conditions also we...

I am sure; we all at some point of time have experienced the rubber band effect in life. Many a time in life we want to go away from something or someone but end up getting closer than before to that person or thing. We find ourselves helplessly falling back to the same thing. There's a sweet pleasure in falling into that person's arms or falling back to the same place but that pleasure is temporary. This temporariness is the reason why we wanted to move away from that place or that individual.  What is the best way to get out of that rubber band and break free? Well maybe trying again and again till the elasticity of the rubber does not bring you back to the same place again. When you finally break free from that you realize what a beautiful part of life has come​to an end. But this is life, it starts off the surety of end. Whenever we try to find permanency in it, it will throw you off track and when you try to break free you will find yourself pulled back h...

How often have you woken up feeling helpless and powerless of the situations? I have woken with such a feeling not just once but multiple times.  Felt powerless about how much life is shaping up. It feels like I have no control over everything. The feeling of not being able to reach or even stretch to grasp what you want, the feeling of not able to perform and being in back seat of the life. I have felt all those feelings and there is one thing that I have found while going through such emotions or such feelings is that we are responsible for such situations.  If we want to get out of that feeling of helplessness then we must muster courage to take the step. To take the initiative to take back the steering of our life and veer it to the path we want. Whether it is relationship or life or even the trivial thing as going out for dinner, you got to stand up and walk off and follow your heart. If you just sit and don't do anything about the situation then your life will ju...