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Wait For A Moment Or Live Many

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Source T here is nothing more beautiful than having what you desired. That sense of accomplishment and happiness of having what you wanted is different. But has it ever happened that you wanted something and got that but with a long very long wait. How does that feel? Do you feel the same kind of achievement or elation? Well for me it then becomes just another day or just another achievement to be honest. What such kind of situation does is it lowers the expectations for your next achievement or next goal or next plan. I distinctly remember such an incident that happened with me after got an offer letter from my first company. I graduated from college and got a job offer from L InfoTech, this was in the month of August. We were having a clue that we would be getting joining in couple of months i.e. October or November. No points for guessing, it got delayed (could be normal too) and it finally came in January. In the mean time I was so tired of waiting and gave an intervie...
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I have a DREAM

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Source There are many quotes, speeches and stories that are there about following dream and achieving success. If you search for motivation dream following videos on YouTube, you will find multiple videos motivating and inspiring individuals to follow their dream. Whenever we discuss about dreams or passion vs Money, we will find individuals divided amongst groups. Some take sides bases on opinions, some on other's experiences and stories.  What dreams and passion are about. Is that about being happy and satisfied and if yes what is the definition of being happy. Happiness for some is family, for some it is being a kid again, for some it is being with their dog. Happiness is a broad term and a person can be happy and satisfied by multiple ways. A person will be happy when he is with his dog and person will be happy when he is with family. He is happy in both the cases. The same is applicable to a person following passion and dream. They are also happy pursuing t...
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Good friend - Best Friend

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Many times in our life we come to that point from where everything starts appearing hazy. Not able to indentify path and people scares us to the core. This is the time when we are most susceptible to veer to the wrong path or get involved with the wrong person. In such a situation what we all need is a good friend. Many quotes and stories have been written about friends and friendship but it is not always possible for us to be in touch with our best friend. This is the reason why I carefully used the word Good Friend. He might not know all your secrets and would not even know extreme crazy side of you but he is the one who will not think ill of you. He will be there by your side and would stop you from veering to the path of misery. If you are depressed and contemplating some crazy ways of getting rid of it then in such a case your good friend will be the one who will set you straight. He/she will give light to the dark path you were about tread on. But in such conditions also we...
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Rubber Band Effect

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I am sure; we all at some point of time have experienced the rubber band effect in life. Many a time in life we want to go away from something or someone but end up getting closer than before to that person or thing. We find ourselves helplessly falling back to the same thing. There's a sweet pleasure in falling into that person's arms or falling back to the same place but that pleasure is temporary. This temporariness is the reason why we wanted to move away from that place or that individual.  What is the best way to get out of that rubber band and break free? Well maybe trying again and again till the elasticity of the rubber does not bring you back to the same place again. When you finally break free from that you realize what a beautiful part of life has come​to an end. But this is life, it starts off the surety of end. Whenever we try to find permanency in it, it will throw you off track and when you try to break free you will find yourself pulled back h...
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Getting out of Whirlpool

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How often have you woken up feeling helpless and powerless of the situations? I have woken with such a feeling not just once but multiple times.  Felt powerless about how much life is shaping up. It feels like I have no control over everything. The feeling of not being able to reach or even stretch to grasp what you want, the feeling of not able to perform and being in back seat of the life. I have felt all those feelings and there is one thing that I have found while going through such emotions or such feelings is that we are responsible for such situations.  If we want to get out of that feeling of helplessness then we must muster courage to take the step. To take the initiative to take back the steering of our life and veer it to the path we want. Whether it is relationship or life or even the trivial thing as going out for dinner, you got to stand up and walk off and follow your heart. If you just sit and don't do anything about the situation then your life will ju...
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Needs Change

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You always need a friend.  The estimate is quite overrated if you ask me. Many times you can be alright whether you have a friend or not. When your shit slips out of your friend that is you start looking for friend. There is nothing wrong in that. I would personally go and speak to someone when i am in deep shit rather sit alone and be clueless and frustrated about.  There is no one i guess who hates friends. We all want friends and many a times need them too but not to get our shit in place but to laugh off the shift and have a bottle of beer. We all need that shoulder, that ear, that crazy laugh and acting completely abnormal in presence of that someone.  Human beings are social animals and this is how we are programmed. We are not programmed to depend and make friends because we need them. We need someone with whom we can enjoy. This is why people say its nice to have a friend in your partner because you want to spend the rest of your life, you would want him/...
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Bend to Attain

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As it goes, the world is a pretty strange place. You would say your whole life that you wouldn't do a certain thing but soon you become addicted to that. Life plays in many different ways. Sometime its a game played in good spirit, sometimes its a close call but sometimes it just unfair. We all want a life that does not have worries or sorrows but we soon find this is not how life works. We take out that shield thinking it will defend us but we soon find ourselves carving knives of it for attack. Life works in mysterious ways yet stays real simple. Life teaches you that you can change and having clear vision does not mean being stagnant. Going with the flow is also needed as being adamant. If you want to achieve something great work towards achieving it but listen to others too they might be having a hack to help you realize your goal. Setting a goal like losing weight is fine, working for it is great but when someone gives you an idea to achieve it in a better that is ...
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